❓ Frequently Asked Questions

1. How can I book a tantric massage with Monica Tantrica?

I recommend booking a few days in advance to ensure the best availability. My calendar opens up for the upcoming months.
If you need a same-day appointment, give me a call—I’ll do my best to adjust my schedule, and you might get lucky if a slot opens up.
This time is just for you—a sacred space to honor your pleasure and growth. I’m always happy to meet you and hold that space.

2. Do I need to bring anything?

No, you don’t need to bring anything besides your openness to receive. In my studio (or hotel session), I provide everything:  oils, water, shower, and a warm, safe space.

3. Who are the sessions for?

My tantric massages are for men, women, and couples who seek a truly transformative experience.
I don’t offer “happy endings,” 30-minute quickies, or escort services. If you’re looking for that, this isn’t the place. My focus is real tantra and healing touch.

4. I’m a beginner — which massage is best for me?

I recommend starting with either the Body-to-Body Basic or Sensitive Tantra Massage—these are gentle, foundational experiences. Begin with 60–90 minutes. Longer sessions (2–3hours) are best for clients who have experience with tantra.

5. Should I abstain from sex before the massage?

It’s not mandatory, but helpful. Not ejaculating for 24 hours beforehand enhances your sensitivity and energy flow during the massage.

6. Do I need to be fully naked?

Yes—for a complete tantric experience, both client and therapist (myself) are fully unclothed. This allows the body’s energy to flow freely, chakra by chakra, for a full energetic release and healing.

7. I feel insecure about my body—can I still book?

Absolutely. I work from the soul, not the body. Body shame is common, but tantra helps you move past it. This massage is a safe space to start healing and re-owning your body. Take one step, and the rest becomes easier.

8. What should I do during the session?

Your role is to be present and receptive. Follow my guidance, breathe, and enjoy the sensations. Tantra isn’t about doing—it’s about being in the moment.

9. How long do sessions last?

Session lengths vary, typically between 1 and 3 hours, depending on your experience and energy goals. Tantra is slow and intentional—it follows a ceremonial rhythm to balance body, mind, and chakras.

10. Are sessions only for men?

Not at all! I welcome men, women, and couples who want to explore sensuality, healing, or deepen their connection.

11. Will I orgasm during a tantric massage?

Orgasm is optional and up to you. I include genital work—always without rushing. If you reach the point of ejaculation, I slow down or stop to prevent climax, though many clients find release deeply pleasurable. Orgasms are welcomed when they come naturally—spontaneous, relaxed, and powerful.

12. Can I experience multiple orgasms?

Yes. If you’re open to this experience and it’s part of your path, I suggest a 2-hour session or longer, which supports deeper energetic exploration.

13. Do I have to include prostate massage?

No. Prostate massage is an optional enhancement: gentle, sensual, and stimulating. If you’re curious, we can begin externally and gradually explore more, always at your comfort level.

14. Can I touch you during the massage?

You may offer gentle, respectful touch if it feels right—but it’s better to remain receptive. Active participation can distraction. This is your time to surrender and receive.

15. Do all clients receive the same attention?

Each session is unique. I meet you where you are—adapting to your energy, needs, and space. My gift is holding you in tenderness and presence, from the first moment to the last.

16. How should I prepare before the session?

Please arrive clean, free from heavy perfumes or lotions. Don’t eat heavily or consume caffeine, alcohol, or drugs within 2 hours of your session. Arrive on time, but not too early—there’s no waiting area. Your session is your time.